With a Person or with a Culture ( a late homework )

Marriage is one of the oldest tradition of humanity. People joined their lives with each other since dark ages under the name of marriage. And nearly in all cultures it is belived to be a holy thing. They belive in proverb ‘’ Love conquers all ! ‘’ and married to whom they love . But life is not a pink dream that that lasts forever as we all know. There are some marriages that end in a divorce trial. And the highest divorce rate is in international marriages. For this I call this kind of marriages ‘’imposible marriages ‘’.

I think culture is the most important thing in our lifes. The way we think, the way we behave and even the way we eat is related to our culture. And all countries have their own culture. For example in Turkey we eat on ground and drink alchol when we are very happy or too sad. But in Germany even in the poorest familie’s house There is a table to eat on it and alchol is a natural part of every meal. There are a lot of differences between each culture apart from those. And they say that two culture can’t live in one house. Think that your wife is German and wants to eat on diner. But you don’t. Now what will you do? Such little differences may cause greater problems when There are too much of them. Now knowing this what will you do? Will you ignore your wife’s culture? No you can’t do such a thing because if you ignore her culture you also ignore her. And it is not a good thing for a marriage. But I know that There are a few happy international marriages. And in most of this marriages one side must made great sacrifices such as ignoring his (her) culture and adapting his wife’s ( husbands) culture. And also they are sor are. I’m 21 years old and I witnessed 6 international marriages although I know a lot of people who married to a person from abroad.

Lastly , in my opinion marrying to person from abroad is ridiculous thing when you consider the problems you ‘ll face. And being happy in such a marriage is mirracle